For those who see the longing beneath the dance.
This design is a love letter to Emotionally Focused Therapy practitioners—and a beautiful reminder of the work you do. "Making silence & protest equally lovable" captures the heart of Sue Johnson's approach: both the withdrawer's protective retreat and the pursuer's desperate reach are expressions of the same fundamental need for connection.
Why this design resonates:
As an EFT therapist, you spend your days helping couples see past the surface behaviors to the attachment longings underneath. You validate the withdrawer's need for space and the pursuer's need for reassurance. You teach that neither is the "problem"—both are lovable, both make sense, both deserve compassion.
This design does that work visually. The two faces, the connecting heart, the simple truth: all attachment bids are worthy of care.
Perfect for your practice:

Office décor - Creates an attachment-informed atmosphere that helps clients feel immediately understood
Your desk - A daily reminder of why you do this work (especially on the hard days)
Gifts for supervisors - Show appreciation to the mentor who taught you to see protest as longing
EFT trainings - Conversation starter with fellow practitioners who get it
Client education - A gentle visual aid when explaining the pursue-withdraw cycle


Product features
- Durable vacuum-insulated stainless steel body for temperature retention
- Leak-proof black screw-on plastic lid with flip-top
- BPA-free lid material for safer sipping
- Dishwasher-safe construction for easy cleaning
- One size: 15 oz (0.44 L) with rounded corners for comfortable grip

Care instructions
- Clean in dishwasher or wash by hand with warm water and dish soap